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Why do I get so many thumbs down?

A:  Maybe they are angry about their circumstances and are jealous. Whoa! Why''d I get so many thumbs down? I said, ''Maybe''! I don''t know the circumstances and was only giving a suggestion. Hey, I totally know what it feels like now, Johnsmuffinpie. because it is fun why do you care? this is the internet people express their opinions and others dont like it. oh well. get over it. maybe its the way you come across when you say those things. you probably need to word yourself better because you are not talking in person. They cannot read your emotions through text. Ive noticed that there are alot of hateful people on here maybe they dont know how to forgive and let their anger go!...

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Why do unhappy adoptees refuse to acknowledge the good adoption stories?

A:  I don''t think that you are seeing the whole picture. I don''t think that those who have had bad experiences think that all have had bad ones. But most people can only go by the experiences they have had. There are many on here who will tell you that they had a good adoption experience and good parents but they still don''t agree with adoption. There is a difference. I don''t feel bad about my adoption I had good parents not perfect as no parent is perfect. Every parent makes mistakes in raising their children. But on the other hand of that I also was adopted the first time by a couple who the woman abused me terribly she did horrible things to me and my brothers, but mostly to me. Thankfully I got out of that situation and was readopted by good people. So I have seen both sides of the...

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Why do pro-Choice people seem to like accusing pro-lifers of bombing abortion clinics as if we all do?

A:  Because they have no better argument. They usually trot this insult out just before, or just after, claiming that the unborn child is just a ''tumor'' or ''parasite.'' This is probably why so many of them hate Christians, whose symbol of hope is a newborn Child. its the same with every group that disagree with one another. if we all think the same way, we are all guilty of some sort of crime/action that only certain groups of people do. Why do pro-Life people like to accuse pro-Choice of all thinking alike?...

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Why do people chose to adopt ? (internationnaly)?

A:  Any number of reasons * some are Infertile * some put their career ahead of their bodies. * some don''t want to damage their own bodies. * some just don''t want to reproduce. * some believe local kids are more damaged then international kids * international kids are more worthy * (in Australia) domestic adoption is near impossible only leaving the international option. * with local kids there is a fear that the childs parents could/will reappear at any time * with local kids their original parents can be found a lot easier. * most don''t realize a dollar a day in the majority of these countries is more than a enough to live on. * looks good on their resume. * the Bible told them so. * makes them feel good * too old to have their own Here are some reasons: The woman...

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Why do so many women put their babies before their husband?

A:  Because everyone on this planet is made differently. Some people like chocolate and some people do not like chocolate. So, don''t make fun of them or assume that your way is the better way. Some people like spiders and some people do not. And, I could go on and on, here. It is just how things are. Good for you for finding the happy medium, and something that works for you and your family. Peace. well i know this is a bad question but would you really put your husband first if you had to choose between him or you baby, say if they got kidnapped and one had to die who would you choose. its a hard question and i wouldn''t know who to choose because i love my husband and my child equally but would you put your husband first in this situation ? Why do you think your way is the way. I can see...

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Why do people assume...?

A:  Because they don''t have a clue about adoption and it''s easier to accept media''s warped version of the truth. The real truth would put people off adopting. In the UK people who aren''t affected by adoption assume that mothers don''t want their babies so choose adoption or the family abuse/neglect the child. They would be shocked at how many mothers/families would do anything to raise their children but have had false allegations made against them and lost children to adoption (forced adoption) even though they can proof they have done nothing wrong. This is a well known case in the UK http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7892809.stů Actually I don''t think that is a common assumption about first families. I would say the common assumptions are...

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Why do people think because I had a wonderful adoption experience I must be living in denial?

A:  I didn''t have a good experience with it. There was nothing wrong with my a-family. That''s just how I experienced it. (Everyone''s different.) Don''t let other people make you feel bad if you''ve had a good experience with it. I think that people just need to understand that adoption doesn''t always equal a good experience. As long as people are educated about the possible problems associated with adoption before they adopt, I''m fairly supportive of it. Adoption is a wonderful thing. My son was lucky enough to be adopted by wonderful Foster Parents. My biggest hangup is CPS. I cannot stand those Nazi maggots and they should all be hanged by the neck until dead. I''m glad you had a wonderful adoptive experience and it is good to hear others on here too. I don''t be

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Why do some think that coming on here and being bitter will help change anyone''s opinions on adoption?

A:  Yeah, Allanas is right. Just let the poor children rot in the agencies. Yep, let''s do that. Don''t adopt, it''s bad! Why? Because the people on Yahoo answers said so! ''Television, movies, the media, all want you to believe that adoptive families ''save'' children.'' Then what are the adopting parents doing? Making their lives worse? Is that what you''re saying? Were they ''really'' better off in the adoption agency? With no one to call a family? With that feeling of ''no one wanting them''? And wouldn''t they have eventually found out they have no real family, whether or not they were adopted? Is the pain easier to be dealt with alone with no one, or with someone who loves you and is there for you? Granted, the...

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Why do people reproduce while there are a lot of orphans out there who need protection?

A:  Why do people adopt children that have parents who love them and want to raise them but are struggling financially. Why not protect the family unit and sponsor them OR focus on Legitimate orphans? Why pay money to baby brokers to coerce vulnerable mothers or outright kidnap their children when there are children in foster care without parents needing a home? The ''Legitimate'' orphans in foreign countries are treated the same way kids in foster care are treated by Paps or Aps. They are even less likely to be adopted because many have Aids or are HIV+ or have physical/neurological disabilities. Because adopting is different than having a biological child. Before you count me as a heartless person, I was adopted when I was an infant. It wasn''t the same for my adoptive parents; it wasn''t...

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Why do adoptees have to constantly reassure people that we love our A Parents?

A:  It''s because some people can''t understand that family connection between biologically unrelated people is ''real''. Adoptive parents are constantly asked in society to confirm that we really do love our adopted children, too. Or to compare love between adopted and biological children - just like adoptees are asked to compare between bio vs. adopted parents / siblings. This comparing and measuring love / relationships is just nonsense. I''m sorry you have to go through this, because one difference between adoptees and adoptive parents having to ''confirm'' or ''reassure'' people about love and relationships is that adoptees never had any choice in being put in that position. Adoptive parents did. Just ask people if they can love more than one child. When they say yes, say, well I can love...