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My newlywed husband and I have barely had sex in our first year of marriage!?

A:  SEX is a vital part of a relationship! get to enjoying yourselves, before you find him gone, with someone else! To be honest I think that is strange. My husband and I have been married for two years and together for four. We now have a four month old baby. We have sex 2-3 weeks. When we were newly married we were having sex almost everyday we couldn''t get enough of each other. I was 20 and my husband was 28 when we got married. I don''t know what yor age is. You two are gonna have to find the spark to rekindle the flame. That may not be an easy task. Try role playing or working out together or just try something new...

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When we Divorced several years ago I didn’t ask my Ex for Child Support/Alimony, Is it too Late Ask for Support Now?

A:  R20;I have been divorced for about 6 years and at the time of the divorce, I trusted my ex to support his six children without the request for child support. Since then I have struggled to support my children with little help. I have been disabled for about five years now and it is getting harder to make ends meet. He was helping us, but now he has moved in with his girlfriend and I now have two minor children left and one 18 year old who is mentally challenged and with me only getting $603 a month, I cannot make ends meet. He has been terrible to deal with and I can’t get him to pay enough support to support my children. I should have listened to the lawyer at the time and asked...

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How on earth do i as a 17 year old find car insurance under 3000?

A:  Either add on to your parents or... and this is what I do.... Buy a classic car! Yes, classic car policies are different to normal ones, they don''t use the ''no claims'' system. So, get a decent car that''s 11+ years old and try the classic insurers. I''m with Peter Best Classic for my 2 classic cars and Peter Best (normal!) for my 2 other cars. I''m 40 now but I bought a 5L merc SL when I was 29 and had problems getting cheap insurance. If you''re interested I''m selling my beautiful 1995 black Audi coupe 2L which would qualify for classic insurance and be totally cool for a young driver! I''m after around 1300 for it. Normally under your parents is cheaper. Buy a Citroen 2CV or a Series 2a Land Rover. Not only will they help you pull women, it will be cheaper...

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My Spouse has not Paid his Taxes for Several years, Will that Affect my Assets also?

A:  R20;My husband owns a business from before we were married. He has not filed his business or personal taxes for at least 4 maybe 5 years. We have been married for 2 years, live in the state of Ohio. I was not aware of this situation until about a year after we were married. The house we live in is in my name only, I bought it before we were married, while living together. I have a bank account with $16,000 in my name only opened just this summer. We also have a joint account that I use for household bills and expenses, and I am custodian on my sons’ account worth about $1000. I own a...

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Is there a time limit from getting married to applying for Fostering/adopting?

A:  Newly married is usually frowned upon but in your case I think it''s ok. You have been married 5 months and have an additional 2 yrs together. There are more important issues she will be looking at---such as health, living conditions, size of your home, your homestudy, your criminal background checks---make certain that mention any misdemeanors[you would be surprised at the people who think a misdemeanor won''t be flagged or something that happened in another state will stay covered;wrong] with the best people who do these background checks they just don''t miss anything. good luck---foster parents are needed on an ongoing basis. As long as you do not have a bad background or anything like that it does not really matter how long you have...

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I just posted a question on dating a married man, i cant say i was shocked with the responses, i will end it.?

A:  Motel to have sex with a married man.. a car that can''t even make it there = Trash there is no help for you he cheated when you kissed!!! My husband had a 9 month affair and dated almost our whole marriage although he denied it! Men that cheat and lie are scums and women should remain UNITED. There is no difference in cheating a little bit or a lot. Buy yourself some Morals!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... Well that sucks. I was hoping for a good story the car didnt want to start its a sign to start well inore you workmate thak god you didn''t do it then you feel worse Idiot troll http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090429134457AAvdbWC...

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I do-- now how much of this do I need to re-do?

A:  I''ve been married for 13 years, and I didn''t change my name until fairly recently; when my son started school and I wanted to have the same last name as he does. In other words; the name change is something you *have* to do. It''s something you can get around to when you get around to it....

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Is it possible to give birth and put child in care instead of giving up for adoption?

A:  Your best bet is to have a friend your completely trust help you out. Any other way you risk losing your child permanently. There are too many desperate vultures out there that will try and get permanent custody despite your desire for it to be temporary. Once you put your child into the system its an upward battle to get them out. Many children in 3rd world countries have been sold to westerners despite their mothers temporarily placing them. How would a child feel being put into care for 5 years until you felt reaady to take the child back. If you feel you can''t look after the child yourself and no one is going to help you then you may have to put your feelings aside and put the baby up for adoption. That way at least your child will have the chance of a happy...

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How can I stop the urge to talk to other guys, seeing how I am trying to work on my marriage?

A:  You are not being honest to yourself or your husband. You both deserve better. End it. You enjoy the freedom of being single so enjoy it. Your not an adult. Because Adults would be honest to each other, separated 2 times in 6 years why not end it. Your not ending it with the guys for some reason, most likely is that you have feelings for the other guys. Just be honest with your self and your husband, you do not want to be with him. For the love of GOD, please pay the cell phone company $10 or $15 and change your dang # that will stop these guys from texting you. It''s a sign that you are reluctant to cut the cord with these other guys because you don''t want to burn any bridges. You seem to think that having been...

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I'm not happy in my marriage and I should be. Help!?

A:  I believe you have waited long enough, don''t you think? Its been 15 years and my guess is that now after he is done partying and having fun he is finally ready to settle down. But, where does that leave you? Yes, kids are important. But so is your happines. If they don''t see you happy they won''t be happy. I recently went through a separation with a somewhat similar situation. I now live on my own with my kids and while its been hard, I know , " letting it go" was the best thing to do. Just my opinion, good luck. Go to counseling - If not for you, for your children and your husband. Sounds like you liked him as the "bad boy" You know the answer to this question you answered it in your last sentence! Kids can detect...